Thursday 20 September 2012

Definition of Character-Tunde Coker


Definition of Character
 Your future depends on your power of will and of course, a higher power. We all decide to be who we are whether as an average person, getting by on an average salary or an influential multi-billionaire living lavish in the suburbs. Successful people aren't chosen by anyone, but rather they choose to be one. The toughest path to success isn't the road but rather getting on the road neither is it always a bumpy ride if you follow a carefully defined route.
 As the saying goes "there's nothing new under the sun" so applies to success, if you want to be successful,  always remember that someone had that feeling and did something about it and eventually got it invariably paving the road to success. So you don't really have to be a genius to be successful, just be smart and follow the already laid down route. No one ever became successful by mistake, it might be more overwhelming than you had expected but it can never be a mistake! But note that you can discover new routes to success by mistake though.
Character building is a self mitigated decision which is curtailed by the proper gesture towards achieving it. Once you can picture the kind of character you want to emulate, the bridge to your perfect self is half crossed. One’s character is the amalgamation of little pieces of everyone's character. Self made character on the other hand is the fixture of desired characters and charisma into yours.
Sometimes in life we get stuck in a vague reality, you just sit back, take a deep breath and try to fix your reality piece by piece. It’s ok to make mistakes but that’s not to be used as an excuse to keep making them. We shouldn’t regret the things we did in our lives, but it's the things we didn’t do would bug us later on in life. The standard we set for ourselves depends largely on how we want to be addressed and whose character we would want to emulate. To be continued...
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Tuesday 18 September 2012

Random post:A gentle reminder of why I love grey hair

Denzel Washington........:)
How would you feel if he were your dad,brother,uncle or husband????very proud...I bet



Monday 17 September 2012

Money...if your pockets are empty,ask your hands why

We never talk about money but it is so important since "money makes the world go round" and  THE LOVE of money is the root of all evil.Also,money is also one of the most common influencers of divorce.
Lately,I have had to consider and evaluate the role money plays in my life and how it affects my relationship with others and how it affects me.I have come to appreciate that it is very important and can influence a lot of the things we are able to do and achieve as individuals and also as Christians.
One of my friends once told me you cant do the work of God broke and its starting to make sense to me more and more.We are less influential and powerful without money and sometimes people show contempt or disrespect towards us when you cant prove that we can provide or have anything in our hand or pocket to give.
At the end of the day,it boils down to the fact that,we wont have any money without a job or if we dont expend any effort that will receive any physical monetary reward,we will never have money unless someone blesses us with it.It also comes very much down to God favouring you and giving you a job that will provide a livelihood for you and your family.

When the chance comes however,work hard,tithe,save and apply the rest properly.

That being said,if you have no money in your pocket,ask your hands why because there is no one to rely on to provide for you once you pass childhood.....The arm of flesh will fail you remember?
A little sleep,a little slumber,a little folding of the arms and your poverty will come like a robber,your need like a bandit(Prov 6:10-11).....a word to the wise is enough.

Saturday 8 September 2012

Dead and Gone:Tunde Coker


When a soul leaves we cry, can't believe the reality at that time, as I see this family grief and wonder what went wrong, I sympathize with them but only in brief. 
At child birth, the pain consumes but as the baby cries the joy u can't compare fills the mother's heart. Mother tries to keep her baby shut few days later she's the one who's shut out from soul, body, mind and spirit separated, her husband can't seem to believe his wife is gone, dead and gone so far away on a journey of no return. He's dejected, consumed by the reality of loneliness his spirit trembles. How sweet to see a grown man cry, tears golden as he thinks of what ritual to undertake first, burial or Christianing? Mourn and right after, Celebrate? 
Her body, buried and later on, disintegrate so will his when his hour comes. Life is not about how long we live, its about how we live it! Love and tears mixed with fear, O how sweet to see a grown man cry, his family and home now Dead and Gone

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