Monday, 20 August 2012

Tunde Coker-Guyz Perspective

My name is Tunde Coker (TC) and I’m a Project manager and an Event Consultant as well as a blogger.  I basically just follow the rhythm of my heart beat and let my heart speak in a spontaneous manner I like to describe as ‘funky’ which is mostly initiated by an unprecedented surge of motivation.
From a Guys Perspective….
We all know that women are complicated and full of surprises. The female gender is one of the most sophisticated species on the planet, they have been said to be created from man's own flesh, but yet their entire being is different from man in its totality. They can never be understood for they themselves have failed to decipher the complexity of their nature… I write about this because of my never ending encounter with this very elusive species.
Be that as it may, the world at large depends on them  for its continuity and existence, after all  girls grow up eventually to be come Ladies or Women as the case may be. Travelling through galaxies of mood swings and thoughtlessness all in a few seconds, their actions might be predictable while in some cases the situation it isnt and the complexity of each female is peculiar to that female.. The last place you'd want to find yourself is in the midst of girls having a feud! The perimeter hurrily become a battle field where they utter words of amunition and strike with gruesome force. Understanding a girl's world is a mystery yet to be solved.
One way or another we all try to fit into their world despite the series of issues they might have, whether through compromise or sacrifice, we do it for the ones that are worth the trouble. The only way one can handle them is through Patience. So guys, a little patience with the ladies won’t hurt…. 
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  1. Haha. This post made me smile for several reasons: the fact that women are described as a species that no one understands and the girls having a feud just seems too cliché. Lol. I do a lot of writing and in doing so, I have to create realistic characters. Funny enough my male characters usually end up being the most complex. And in most books the male characters are the ones nobody can really figure out what's going on in their head. Women might be a lot more "emotional" than men. But when it comes to complexity, goodness, guys can be at the top of the bar. And I'm saying this with specific people in mind. I think the reason a guy's perspective would think ladies have "series of issues" is just because ladies like to think deeper at things when guys usually are satisfied with the surface. And I do feel the need to come back to the "girls having a feud". The last time I witnessed something of the sort was in the middle school. So I think this might depend on the kind of ladies you surround yourself with. Again, it sounds highly cliché. Besides, guys can have arguments to. How much of a "battlefield" the perimeter becomes, depends on their maturity.

    I think it's interesting that a guy's perspective would use the word "handle" while talking about ladies. Sounds quite pejorative.

    This was an interest read. I look forward to more ;)

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  2. I like how FunTo dissected this whole blog lol... But I find both interesting so yh... thanks for sharing

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  4. Just checking back for any new posts you may have written.
    I’ve been a follower on your blog for a while now and would like to invite you to visit and perhaps follow me back. Sorry I took so long for the invitation.

  5. The female complexities are what makes them indispensable.


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